Dear Christian brother, it's crucial not to overlook what women truly seek after the physical act of intimacy. While men may say and do the right things to initiate sex, it's how they treat their partner afterward that reveals their true feelings. Many women find themselves feeling unloved or used after moments of passion with the man they envision a future with. Even wives may feel neglected by their husbands. Some men may begin the sexual encounter well, only to drift off after the climax, leaving their partner feeling like it was all about fulfilling their own desires. Women crave more than just the physical connection; they long for intimacy and affection. Here's what she needs after the climax:
1. To be embraced and held as you drift off to sleep, sharing loving words with each other.
2. Gentle kisses on the lips, forehead, and closed eyelids to show continued affection and desire for her.
3. Hearing the words "I love you" reaffirms that the intimacy was an expression of love and that she is the one you truly desire.
4. Tender touches on her belly, especially if you are trying to conceive.
5. Prayers together demonstrate the sacredness of your love and your commitment before God.
6. Compliments on her beauty, both inside and out, to dispel any self-conscious thoughts she may have.
7. Intense eye contact that shows a deep desire for her, making her feel wanted and cherished.
8. Acknowledgment of her amazing performance in bed, alleviating any insecurities she may have and boosting her confidence.
9. Playfully interacting with her fingers and wedding ring to reaffirm your commitment and love.
10. Addressing any issues or conflicts that may have led to make-up sex, ensuring that resolutions are reached and not swept under the rug.
11. Caressing her skin all over her body, not just focusing on certain areas, to provide a sense of love and tenderness.
12. Covering her with a blanket, symbolizing protection and care, even in the vulnerability of the post-intimacy moment.
13. Sharing a shower together, particularly after morning intimacy or a quick encounter before parting ways, to foster closeness and warmth.
May God bless us with a loving and harmonious home.
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